Living
in a village of 1,800 people was difficult for Kelsey MacDonald, who was
born and raised in Ucluelet, BC, on Vancouver Island. "There aren't
a lot of resources for youth," she explains. "In high school,
there are only eight electives and it's also hard to find work."
Kelsey became frustrated with the lack of opportunities, dropped out of
high school and decided to move to Vancouver.
With her boyfriend's support, Kelsey started planning the move
two months before she left. "We researched places to live and applied
for jobs," she says, "but it's difficult when you're
not there." Neither of them was able to find work or an apartment,
but they weren't discouraged. They moved to Vancouver in January
2004 and found accommodation first at a hostel, and then at a friend's
house. Only weeks later, they enrolled in a free youth employment program
to learn career and life skills that will help them find jobs.
Kelsey and her boyfriend now have their own apartment and they have successfully
completed the employment program. "It was hard but we did it,"
Kelsey says of her transition. "It was a big change and a great
experience." She says she loves urban living and doesn't want
to live in a small town again but she does miss Ucluelet's beaches
and wilderness. Now, her plans are to find a job in the hospitality industry
and complete her high school education. Kelsey's advice to youth
who want to move from rural to urban communities is to research everything
first and not to give up when things don't go as planned. "With
such life-changing decisions, get all your resources, have a destination
and know that it's possible."
Although
she didn't think Grade 12 was important at the time, Erica Williams
wishes she hadn't dropped out of high school in 1993. "I was
a rebellious teen with a mind of my own. I was interested in boys and parties
and nobody could tell me what to do," she says. Now 27 years old,
she's made the decision to complete her Grade 12 education. But carrying
through with that decision hasn't been easy.
"I'm busy with so many other things in life, like parenting
three, going on four, children. I don't have the time like I did
in high school-only I didn't realize it then." Another
factor affecting Erica's decision is cost. Completing her Grade
12 education outside the public school system means course and exam fees,
which vary depending on the institution. "I'm trying to figure
out whether to complete my Grade 12 with the Long Distance Education program or with
Continuing Education. I can only do what doesn't cost a lot of money,"
she says.
Despite the challenges, Erica says there's a positive side to her
story. Going back to school in her twenties means she's more eager
to learn and has more self-discipline. "I want to have a career
of my own and a second income in the family," she says. Erica's
goal is to be a hairdresser, which would allow her to set her own hours,
be her own boss and work out of her home so she can be with her children.
Overall, she's excited about her decision to go back to school.
"I don't feel at all uncomfortable. There are so many people
doing it that I'm just one in a million doing the same."
Like
many youth, Chris Thibault, 17, has anxieties about the career and life
choices he's making. "Things could change after a year. What
if I find something else I want to do?" Chris will graduate from high
school this summer and plans to move to Victoria, BC, to work for a year
before starting on a career path in real estate. "It's hard,"
says Chris, "because I'll need to support myself when I move
out, so I can't go into school right away."
So far, however,
Chris's plan is going well. He has received an offer for a full-time
job at Home Depot in Victoria and has looked into courses at Camosun Community
College. Overall, he feels positive about his transition into the world
of work and his choice to go into real estate. "I really want to
do it," he says. "My dad has customers who are realtors so
I talked to them about real estate and it seems pretty interesting,"
he explains. "When I told them I wanted to do it, they said it was
the smartest thing they'd ever heard!" Chris has found his
network of supporters, including his father's customers, to be very
helpful. "Talking to people and finding someone who is doing what
you want to do is important," he says. "Talking gives you
good connections, encouragement and support."
For
Robin Chouinard, life had been a series of difficult transitions and poor
choices. When his parents divorced, 11-year-old Robin became heavily involved
in drugs, alcohol and criminal activity. "I resorted to stealing and
breaking into homes and businesses in order to make money to support my
lifestyle," remembers Robin, whose actions led to his mother's
decision to move him from rural Valemount, BC, to live with his father in
Prince George. It was a tough move. "I absolutely cannot stand living
in the city," he says. "However, my relocation was a direct
result of my actions and behaviour."
Robin lived with his father
for a month before moving in with his sister, but neither situation was
positive. Soon, the Ministry of Children and Families took Robin into
custody and placed him into group and foster homes. During this period,
which was marked by several trips to prison, Robin decided it was time
to make a change. "Transition is hard for anyone, I don't
care how strong a person is," he says. "When I made the decision
to smarten up I simply told myself I'd had enough, and I was introduced
to a lot of people who were able to support me."
Aware that Robin was looking for help with drug, alcohol and anger management
issues, the staff at Robin's group home pointed him in the right
direction. At the same time, they allowed him to make mistakes, empowering
him to move forward on his own terms. "Empowerment is the best form
of assistance," he says, adding that the feeling of self-accomplishment
that comes with empowerment is very rewarding. His advice to youth who
want to make positive life transitions: "Do it. You have absolutely
nothing to lose. I don't want to tell you it's a walk through
the park because it's not. But the rewards are endless."